Hi jane I am a nappies lover and wearer but thinking about it it is strange as apose to the norm so wat is the sexual attraction to nappies do you think??
Ooh the million dollar question! There’s just something very sexy but I can’t put my finger on it. The way it accentuates the curve of the bum. The feel of them when they are wet. The very fact that it is a taboo. I can’t put it into words… :)
Hi Jane! I've read somewhere that you really enjoy wetting your nappy in shops. I was just wondering if you are able to just stop where you are at any given moment and wee, or do you feel the need to find a quiet corner of the shop/supermarket. Also, so you get a particular thrill doing this in the baby aisle of the supermarket?
I’m able to wee anywhere but sometimes I have to stand still, other times I’m relaxed enough to do it while walking. No, I don’t find it any more exciting in the baby aisle.
Hi jane I know you say not to but if wearing nappies is a fetish sexually and you try to push it away is it possible or in your opinion would you always come back?? Xxx
The majority of people I have spoken to who are diaper lovers - especially the older ones and ones who it was there from childhood for - have tried to push it away. Every one of them says it just isn’t possible. It keeps coming back. The cycle of binge and purge is just not healthy. I seriously advise embracing who you are sooner than later. Years of guilt isn’t a good thing. It is something you can’t stop the desire for so there’s only two options: sadness and guilt or happiness and inner peace. I think its obvious which is better! Good luck, I know it can be a difficult journey xx
Borderline. The illness of extremes. But if I could choose, I wouldn’t be any other way. I adore feeling things so deeply, I just wish the lows didn’t hurt those I love. I’m generally in control of it these days through Quetiapine and CBT, but the traits are always there in my personality.
Yay, I’ve reached over 3000 followers! Thank you to every one of you. I hope my pictures and writing give you permission to love yourself, embrace your kink and never be ashamed of who you are! Enjoy every day, make every moment count. Live with love and love life. You only get one shot at this life, so live it for yourself. Peace xx
I was very upset to read a tweet today from an AB boy who I really respect saying that he had lost some followers who he really enjoyed talking to since he posted some scat pictures.
An argument purported by a mutual friend was the fact that scat play can be dangerous to the body. My retort was that smoking harms the body in far more well documented ways and yet I’ve never known someone unfriend…
Hi. Could you tell me more about yourself, and the AB lifestyle? I should tell you I don't judge.
I’m 23, been an ABDL for nearly 5 years and am very lucky to have had a Daddy Dom for a year now. I love nappies, both as an AB and also sexually. Being little and playing with toys and doing craft mean a lot to me :) I adore this lifestyle and will never give it up or be ashamed of who I am!
How would you help encourage a friend to get a real diaper to wear when at the moment she wears "mini diapers" for her period and then a little before and after. Its not that big a leap from "mini diapers" to actual diapers right? Anything I should know to help her say yes but in a "I want to wear them" not " I was kinda peer pressured"? I think she would Look great and it would be perfect for what she needs- BB
At the end of the day, as hot as we think our friends may look in diapers, I don’t think we should necessarily encourage them to wear. The best thing is to tell them why you like it and let them make up their mind for themselves. Most people are curious, but we must have the right motives in sharing the wonderful world of nappies with people.
As for your “mini diaper” theory, I really don’t see much link between sanitary towels and nappies. One doesn’t wet ones sanitary towel, and they’re not that fun to wear. My opinion is not to try and draw a link there. Most women don’t like things to do with their periods but they often will like the safety and innocence of nappies- something from a time in their life before such things as periods.
Good luck in introducing your friend to the lifestyle :)
I love wearing nappies but I struggle to hide it all from my family, any tips on hiding nappies
Do you live at home? If so, take them out of packaging and keep them in a bag in your wardrobe or something… anything that doesn’t look at all interesting for snooping parents to look in. Put used ones in a backpack and take them to a bin somewhere away from your house. Hope this helps!
Recently, a few people on Fetlife have asked me why I always wear a sapphire and diamond ring on my right hand. It is actually very meaningful for me, so I thought I would write about it. This ring is the second most expensive thing I have ever bought myself, the first being my car. It cost £500, but it was never supposed to be me who paid for it. I was 16, in love and probably rather naïve. I…
Hi, I follow you and your blog and love it! I am a 5/6 year old little girl just starting out. My Mummy wants to help me, What would you suggest to start off my little collection? Also can 5 year old little still like dummies and bottles? Thanks. You rock.
I find when people set out they like to define as a particular age. As you’re already finding this is restricting and has little use. Be YOU - your little is a unique person who enjoys certain behaviours ranging from babyish to childish and maybe at times even older. So forget your age and buy what appeals to you. Dummy, nappy, bottle, teddy, craft stuff, DVDs… Have fun!
do you ever just start thinking about sex and zone out for a couple of seconds and stare into space and then you come back and you’re like ah shit i hope no one realised i was thinking about sex just now